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Wednesday, 28 January 2015

Simple House Plan

Hello Mellow... 

Tengah merancang untuk buat rumah sendiri tapi masi tercari-cari house plan yang sesuai.. so i did my research (quick and easy research using pinterest) and tadddaaaa here are some house plan simple buat i think cukup lah untuk kami 4-beranak ni.. 

my dear house sememangnya dapur yg besar and walk in closet but semua tu bergantung rezeki yg Tuhan bagi.. sekarang hanya dapat tawakal sahaja hihi... mohon & doa banyak-banyak supaya rezeki datang bergolek-golek hihi... 

















Sunday, 25 January 2015

50 THINGS I want to TEACH my DAUGHTERS

Today i'm gonna share 50 things I want to teach my daughters..

I started to thinking about this after my husband and I have the awkward fight last week then I realize how many things I need to teach them while I still have the chance...

But since both of my daughter are still too young to understand, I decide to write and give to both of them when they reach teenagers age and able to understand about it..

And since I do have a blog and I would like to share something about this on my blog to so that they can read it when the time is come (cheewwaaaa.. macam la blog saya ni ada followwer hahahaha)..

and yeah so here are the 50 things i want to teach my daughters....





































1. NEVER use scented tampons.
2. Always look people in the eye when you’re talking to them.
3. Don’t scrimp on wine, perfume, or handbags. They say a lot about a woman.
4. Grilled cheese sandwiches and macaroni and cheese are to be eaten with ketchup. Eggs are not.
5. You are not better than anyone, and no one is better than you.
6. Just because you can fit in the extra-small, doesn’t mean you should be wearing it.
7. It’s not the quantity of friends that matter. It’s the quality.
8. You can tell a lot about someone by their shoes. Make sure yours are always polished.
9. When people talk to you, LISTEN to them.
10. Make sure you always have a little “eff you” money tucked away for those times when life isn’t treating you the way you want it to.
11. See the world. And pack Imodium.
12. Live to eat, not the other way around.
13. People remember how you make them feel. Never forget that.
14. Don’t gossip. Except with me. I love that stuff.
15. Go with your gut. It’s very rarely wrong.
16. Go to university, live in residence, and have fun. But get good grades. A degree will take you places.
17. Take responsibility for your actions and apologize when you’re in the wrong.
18. Don’t be afraid to fail.
19. If he makes you cry anything but happy tears, he’s not worth it.
20. Repeat after me: I. Can. Accomplish. Anything.
21. Don’t sleep around. Guys may have fun with sluts, but they don’t marry them.
22. Don’t be a sore loser.
23. If you decide you prefer women to men, your Dad and I will not care, nor will we love you any less. Just promise me you’ll take me to a gay bar. I know I’d make you proud.
24. A little bit of weed is okay, but don’t smoke cigarettes, and never do anything chemical.
25. Don’t take yourself too seriously.
26. A shot of vodka before shopping for swimwear makes the whole experience much more pleasurable.
27. I don’t care how young you are: if you’ve been drinking, call me. I’ll get you and your friends home safely. No questions asked.
28. Download Miles Davis’ album, Kind of Blue.
29. Never judge people you don’t know unless you’ve walked a mile in their shoes.
30. Don’t let a day go by without listening to music.
31. If you’re not married to him, don’t have unprotected sex with him.
32. The world is too small a place to be a jerk to anyone (unless he was a jerk first).
33. When wearing pantyhose, always have a back-up pair in your purse.
34. Don’t be afraid to go out without make-up on. I imagine it must be quite liberating.
35. Wear sunscreen.
36. Always bring your own dessert when you go to Gran and Grandad’s for dinner.
37. Learn how to say “NO”.
38. Read lots of books.
39. When it comes to relationships, don’t settle. Wait for the one that takes your breath. Like I did.
40. Rules are made to be broken. Except mine.
41. I’ve always got your back.
42. If you’re not comfortable talking about it, you shouldn’t be doing it.
43. Very few things are more painful than childbirth. Bikini waxing is one of those things.
44. Never go to bed mad. And don’t tell your partner everything.
45. Learn how to cook. I didn’t, and we both know how that turned out.
46. Tattoos are permanent. Think long and hard before getting one.
47. Always have something that’s just for you, be it writing, music, crafting, or something equally awesome. And make time for it. It’ll do wonders for you.
48. Never lose your sense of humor.
49. Even when I’m gone, I’ll always be with you.
50. Everything is going to be okay.

Thursday, 22 January 2015

Reach Ranau From Kudat Safely.. ^_^

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Such a tiring day.. all the way from kudat to ranau is not that easy but at least lebih dekat berbanding kudat-kb-ranau (itu boleh patah pinggang haha) jalan pon memang ok suda la but still ada sepruh yang undone..


still under construction katanye... but the view is so nice, with all the trees along the way and sungai yang masih belum dicemari lagi,, memang nyaman sesangat.. 




asalnya my husband yang datang ambik tapi sebab dia sangatlah demam & selesma dia tidak jadi ambik mamak budak & anak-anak sekalian... but it's ok we still sampai ranau dengan selamat with my baby brother.. dia drive memang laju but still berhati-hati... aikssss apa yang saya cakap ni hahahha,,, forget about it.,. and yesss tidak ketinggalan juga gambar selfie ku hahahaha.. 





mama budak in action lol~ 


 kulit semakin gelap & parut jerawat tidak pandai pudar-pudar sebab tu pakai camera 360' hahahha.. camera 360 menambahkan lagi keyakinan diri anda.. chewwa.... promote apps nampak haha... anyway i have a great time at kudat with my kiddo & the siblings walaupon kurang our muk2.. and yeah kudat is totally different without our muk-muk hahaha.. 

Wednesday, 21 January 2015

The "YUMMIEST" ABC Ever..!!

This is the yummiest ABC ever.. seriously, ni abc pertama yang sangat menepati cita rasa sya.. suppose to be i'm on diet tapi sebab godaan abc sangat la kuat maka diet pon terkubur bersama-sama niat mau kurus haha... kalau Ranau ada abc yang sedap macam ni confirm hari-hari abc la jawapnya.. syukurlah ranau teda abc yang begini sedap.. ais pon tidak keras macam abc-abc yang kena jual di gerai-gerai atau restoren-restoren sekarang ni... pas tu part paling best ada kacang merah banyak on the bottom of the ice... so yummylicious.. dapat ni ice cream dari Vanilla Cafe di sni kudat.. they also serve pizza.. walaupon tidak sesedap pizza hut tapi sekurang2nya kudat ada pizza, spaghetti, abc yang sedap & other western food... Ranau cuma ada Mama Kopitiam saja tu pon nta macam mau tidak mau saja tukang masak dia masak kali.. pernah 1 kali saya order watan mee ayam tiba-tiba sampai watan mee seefood.. hurmmm.. makan saja la suda sampai di meja haha..
Tapi apa-apa pun memang ni abc dia sedap haha... memang manis la tapi untuk orang yang gila makanan manis ni memang sangat menyelerakan & sangat boleh buat orang lupa dunia kejap.. tapi kalau orang yang tidak suka minum atu makanan manis ni memang bukan pilihan la haha... but for me this is the best abc ever.. should try when visiting kudat.. haha high recommendation..




and this is my partner in crime haha,, my bff & my sister & my other half.. she the one who suggest to eat the abc.. and yeah our taste is the same so both of us love the abc to the moon and back hihi... 

Sunday, 18 January 2015

Late Post *Kudat Trip And Still At KUDAT...!!*

Hola, ladies and gentleman... (macam la blog haku ni ada pengunjung yek dok..!! haha..)

Today saya dan anak2 pi kudat (yeah....!!!) Rupanya dekat pula jalan Ranau-Kota Marudu (KM) by pas tu, dari Ranau jam4 sampai kudat around 6pm, lebih kurang 2jam sahaja perjalanan dari Ranau p Kudat.. Kalau dulu jalan jam 4pm sampai Kota Belud(KB) around 6pm, lepas tu kb to simpang 4 km 1jam juga la.. plg awal sampai Kudat pun jam 8.30pm.. Penatnya tu ikut jalan jauh tapi sekarang senang sudah ler.. cuma ambil masa 2 jam sja untuk sampai kudat... So yeah.. here we are at The Tip of Borneo.. Sadly, we left mr.hubby alone at home.. only me and the kiddo when to kudat not for a trip actually.. it's more like become their (my lil sista, both of my cuzzy, and my lil's brother) guardian since my aunt and uncle away..

Nothing special unless the *husband and wife* story haha.. but i write it here on my blog to make sure i remember how lucky i am to have such an amazing, loving and one of a kind husband.. as my previous blog i did write a letter for my hubby haha that's because we had a fight (more like I was the one who start & jadi orang gila) with my huby.. so this blog i'm gonna write it down how amazing my husband is..

After the fight, we don't really talk (tapi sepa juga yang becakap lepas begaduh kan hahaha) malam hri sabtu after i wrote the letter to my hubby (my previous post) hubby sya pon blk rumah dalam keadaan yang tidak marah & tidak juga 100% ok.. dia mengadu sakit gigi, bukan la sya buat2 risau tapi memang risau pon sebab kan dia husband after all haha.. then sya paksa dia bekumur pakai air garam (i goggled it untuk cari petua menghilangkan sakit gigi haha) then after that tido macam biasa la, me and hubby tidur under 1 bed and the kiddo d bed sebelah.. around 3am, he wake me up for another air garam sebab masi sakit lagi gigi dia.. then saya pn x bnyak cakap la bangun terus p buat air garam pas 2 sambung tidur..
The other day (sunday)..
kami bangun macam biasa macam tiada apa2 yang jadi.. but still dia mengadu sakit gigi la..after packing all the things we went to my mom's house.. the kids was there and both of us follow my mom pi breakfast.. and sekali lagi he act like nothing ever happened between us... sebelum kami jalan pi kudat kami text-ing each other.. on the way p kudat pon still text-ing.. smpai kudat pon update juga macam biasa.. malam tu kami facetime using my brother pnya hp after that sambung sms.. i know blk2 juga sms kan tapi yeah we use to,, kami memang macam ni kalau bejauh mmg akan sentiasa bemesj mcm orang baru becinta hahaha.. then suddenly...




poor lil hubby... really sorry yang... saya betul2 tidak berniat mau kasi sakit hati ko smpai mcm 2 sekali.. but mark my word i'm not gonna let u go till dead separate us.. u r the best ever happened to me.. tanx for being the best husband ever... and today i mean yeah mc belum pagi jadi masi isnin lagi ba ni kan hahahha... today kami jadi macam biasa, he told me he miss me sms macam orang baru becinta.. sentiasa update location.. i really miss u yayang ku.. 

beruntung kan mak ngah dapat husbond semacam itu haha.. sebelum ni saya betul2 fikir semua suda tamat.. semua suda berakhir macam tu saja sebab saya layan dia macam sampah sebelum ni.. o ya.. selain mau kurus sya mau tambah lg 1 azam bru sya.. saya mau taat sma suami, sya mau dngr ckp suami, x mau kuat melawan, x mau kuat marah & sentiasa sokong apa pn yg suami sy buat ( yang bagus sja la) haha.. I love you to the moon and back yayang... muahhhhhhmuahhhhh.... 

p/s lepas suda jadi mcm tu guess what.. he still gonna come to kudat ambik kami.. sedangkan adik lelaki sya pon di sni juga.. boleh blk ranau sama2 but he said he miss all of us.. so yeah... itu lah salah 1 pengorbanan suami sya kan..kan... terharuh mak ngah noh...!! haha.. 

GGUUUDDDDD NIIIIIGGGHHHHTTTTT @ GOOOODDDDDDD MOOOORRRNNNIIINNNGGG 




Saturday, 17 January 2015

Letter for Mr.Husband..♥



Dear hubby..

I'm looking for suitable word to express how much i regret for losing my temper but i couldn't find any.. i'm truly apologize for what I've done last night.. i should never scream at you, i should never yell at you for unacceptable reasons... i'm truly sorry... you know how much i love you right..? u know what and how i sacrifice all just for you.. i really don't mean to hurt u that much... i'm so sorry... if i could if i just could turn back the time i'll hug u when u need me the most last night... 

Dear my yayang..

saya tau apa pun yang sy cakap lepas ni semua teda guna suda, saya sedar juga sya terlalu & terover melampau semalam.. sya tidak sepatutnya cakap benda mengarut macam tu... saya betul2 mnta maaf... saya mnyesal betul benda2 macam tu keluar dari mulut sya.. saya tau ko pn tengah bfkr skrg ni kan patut buat apa dngn bini yang kurang ajar & biadab macam sya ni... it's ok sayang... it's ok.. i been thinking of it for this hold day.. if u ask for separation, i'll say yes.. it's not because i hate u or because saya mau melawan.. no..!! it's just because sya tidak tau macam mana mau minta maaf lagi.. & saya tidak tau sya masi boleh dimaafkan lagi ka tida.. i love u chenta.. i really do love you.. u are just perfect for me.. u accept me for who i am.. u accept my past and love me unconditionally.. i truly blessed to had u in my life but it seems like i unworthy to have you... u are just too perfect for me.. 


i cry every time i thought of what happened last night.. should i hug u when u're crying last night.. should i apologize when ur tears running to your face last night..??? my god..!!! i'm truly sorry sayang.. i really sorry... i love you will all of my heart and i don't want to hurt you anymore... what should i do to stop u from dying on the inside..??? should i walk away..? should i just slowly walk away from your life..?? i just don't know... 

mungkin sekarang la masa paling sesuai kita bepisah kan.. mungkin sekarang la masa paling tepat untuk kita separate & bawa haluang masing2.. ya ka?? 








I LOVE YOU TO THE MOON AND BACK SAYANG...